A note to all prospective Club Adventure visitors:
We are very careful about the atmosphere of our club. It is important to us that all new couples attend the orientation so we
can be sure that everyone's on the same page. This lifestyle is best experienced slowly, and together. We hope that all our guests have a
wonderful experience.
What is the orientation/interview process like?
An hour before parties, we invite all new couples to come and meet the club owners and other new couples. We sit informally and discuss
many of the issues that everyone thinks about, but has no one to talk with about. We discuss HIV, soft swing vs. hardcore, do you "have to
do anything", jealousy, how to say no, and more. Anything you want to talk about is fine, but if you don't feel comfortable saying anything,
that's fine, too. Since we make the orientation sessions and hour just before the party, we try to limit the conversation to an hour.
How many other ‘new’ couples will be there?
We try to limit the number of new couples for parties, and therefore you won't be the only ones. However, we also do not identify you in any
way as a new couple, so if you choose not to say anything to others, that’s fine.
My husband and I are in our early 30's. Are there other couples involved in your club in this same age group?
We have a very diverse group, but you need to be at least 21 to attend any club function. The average age of our members is 25-50s.
Do most the couples come from around there or are some from surrounding states? We do not want to run the
risk of running into someone we know for discretionary reasons.
Again, we have a very diverse group. We have couples from all parts of the Chicagoland area, southern Wisconsin, and Northern Indiana.
However, we also have couples who visit us from all around the country. Please be assured that everything we do is very confidential, and
frankly, the other couple is here, too!
Is participation is mandatory or is it ok to observe our first night?
It is NEVER mandatory to participate! We don't have a whole lot of rules here, but our biggest concern is that everyone respects everyone
else's boundaries. The first rule of the lifestyle is that NO means NO, without question and without argument. No is a VERY big word! No
one will hit on you and no one will pressure you to do anything - ever.
Are we required to remove our clothes?
We don't have any "dress down" rules here. As our parties are generally run in hotels and other publicly accessible places, full nudity is
generally prohibited. There are no requirements to be nude in any of the Club’s specifically sanctioned rooms (unless specifically identified
by a sign). If you want to remain clothed all night, every night, that is certainly up to you. We do suggest you bring a change of clothes or a
robe in the event that you do wish to take your clothes off at some point in the evening, and want to travel around the Club’s areas without
having to put your clothes back on from room to room.
These are just some of the questions we are routinely asked about the club experience. For more questions and questions about swinging
or the lifestyle in general check out our FAQ page!
If you don’t see your specific question answered, or would prefer to contact us directly, please do so!
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